The law of attraction has ZERO chill.
So make sure you put posi-vibes out there, okay? So that you get posi-vibes back!
Now I’m not one to scaremonger that if you have ONE teeny tiny negative thought your whole life will come crashing down (that’s just NOT my vibe!)…
…but I am a firm believer that the higher the frequency you vibrate on, the more likely you are to attract the things you do want, and the lower a frequency you vibrate on, then the more likely you are to attract the things you don’t.
You feel me?!
Now, having attracted a six-figure soul-based business into my own life, I feel like I have something to say about combining the woo with the work. Sooo if you wanna hear what not to do, then be sure to read on to find out the 5 manifestation mistakes you might be making…
…before you quantum leap into the life of your dreams!
You don’t ask (or ask over and over again)
You don’t sit down at your table in a restaurant and expect the waiter to bring you your meal from the kitchen without first placing your order, do you? Sooo why should life be any different? The Universe can’t give you what you want if it doesn’t know what you want…
…so make sure to give it a helping hand by telling it, girl!
Except – don’t ask over and over and over again. I get it. You want the damn thing. But if you ask 100 times your energy isn’t that of abundance (which would put you in a position to receive), but lack (which would not).
Think about it: if you were asked out on a date next Saturday by a guy and you’d already said yes, would him double checking that you were still on for it multiple times a day in the lead up, would you be pulling out your LBD and clicking your heels or thinking of ways to let the loser down? I mean probably the latter, right? Desperation is a turn off to you and the Universe. She heard you loud and clear the first time, honey!
You set the scope
You know that line in Mean Girls, when Cady Heron’s tackling the math question during the Mathlete’s sudden death round and answers that “the limit does not exist”?
We-ell the limit does not exist when it comes to manifestation either. As humans, we seem to think that ‘big’ things like our dream business are harder to manifest than ‘small’ things such as a cup of coffee…
…but let me in on a little secret. It’s not! You don’t attract what you want to have. You attract what you believe you can have. So the only thing getting in the way of you and your all expenses paid vacay to Bora Bora in an overwater villa with your soulmate and booming biz you can work on wherever there is wifi is doubt, baby girl – trust me!
You don’t create space for what you want
You want a whole new wardrobe, except your hanging rail is groaning at the weight of all your old clothes.
You want a meaningful relationship, but spend 3 nights a week with the bad boy you should have kicked to the kerb many moons ago.
You want to boss a biz, but…
…do you see where I’m going with this?
You’ve got to clear out the old to make room for the new, girlfriend. So whatever it is you want to manifest, be sure to make space for it to come in, RIGHT THIS SECOND!
Are you a coach that wants to take on 3 new clients, for example? Then open up 3 spots on your Calendly!
This relates to ‘acting as if’, you know? One of the most tried and true law of attraction techniques there is! If you want to be fully booked, do what a fully booked woman would do and arrange the time with the girls outside of office hours not during. Or if you want to be abundant don’t check your bank balance every day and the price tags on everything, fearful to part with your pennies in case they never return. Give freely and trust that what you put out into the world you’ll get back.
Quantum leap into the version of yourself that already has what you want. And act exactly as she does!
4. You think too much about the ‘how’
Look, babe – I’m a girl too, which means I knooow how much we over-analyse from time-to-time.
The thing is though, how the Universe brings you business? IS NOT YOUR BUSINESS!
It’s not up to you HOW your manifestation comes to be. That’s the Universe’s job…
…so stop getting all up in its business okay? You are a CO-creator, not the one and only creator – remember that.
You give up waaay too fast
Don’t you be giving up five minutes before the miracle now! Just because you asked for something to manifest before 11.11 on 11th November and it’s now November 12th doesn’t necessarily mean it’s not coming, it just might be a little late, that’s all…
…and haven’t you ever been late?
It also might mean that something better is coming your way. Something that’ll serve a greater good. So put your trust in the Universe that it’ll either bring you ‘this or something better’…
…so long as you’re on the right wavelength. It is the law, after all!
Whether you’re clairvoyant (clear seeing), clairaudient (clear hearing), clairsentient (clear hearing) or claircognizant (clear knowing) I gotchu, girl! I’m a clairvoyant – could we be intuitive twinnies?!
If you want to learn how producer Bobby Shan uses intuition to multiply his own business you can find more about his journey here from our contributor Jonathan Maxim.